This one really speaks for its big girl panties friend self.
I will tell you this, there was a time in my life when I let things stew instead of going to my friend- you know, like a “real” grown up probably would have. As it turns out, she’d been holding back too. Our little things turned into big things. And one day, those big things turned into a hot mess knock em out drag em out epic battle. We both hit below the belt and said dirty UGLY things to each other.
Because of the below the belt punching we BOTH participated in, things between us have NEVER been the same. And to be honest, I’m not sure they ever will. I own my mistakes and she owns hers.
And when we see each other, we’re friendly to each other. But I’m not so sure that we’re friends anymore…
Big Girl Panties lesson learned.
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Wow. Yes. I feel like I do the same to my husband–expect him to know I am upset without my having to actually TELL him. And I hate that things got intense between you and your friend. But the testimony is raw and real and we can learn from it. So thank you for that!
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